Friday, January 07, 2005

Open question to all readers:

Question: Is it bad form to flaunt smoochy pictures to someone you crushed on for 5 years?

Here's the situation: Meet my friend J. When she was in 8th grade, and on for 5 years, she had this huge crush on my friend, B. Currently, J is "unoffically engaged" to someone now (that sparked my last post *scoff* 10 months...), and B has yet to have had a girlfriend. She sends B a picture of J and her boytoy kissing.

Am I wrong in thinking that this, joined with the fact that she's been flaunting the ring at me, that she is being HORRIBLY unclassy? It just doesn't set right with me.

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

Unclassy. Man that's the understatement of the year. What could she be trying to accomplish by doing something so utterly tasteless? Could it be that J still has feelings for B and is trying to make him jealous? Or is she just being a bitch and trying to hurt him? She sounds very immature and kind of nasty. I don't mean to rank on your friends,but you asked. Norm

The Kitola said...

The jealousy idea is the only thing I can think off, too. I don't think she's trying to be a bitch...but she often goes into "grand high princess bitch" mode without knowing it. I have a whole story about the last time that happened, but I won't get into it here.

I have half an urge to call her on this, but she doesn't know that I know she showed it to him. I heard about it from B (who, of course, was very non-plused with the whole thing).

Get this: She claims to be "ever so much older than (she) was two years ago"

Anonymous said...

If she thinks she's acting older she must have been a toddler two years ago.
Call her on it if you can do it without getting B in trouble. It might do her good to know what a skank she's coming across as.
Either that or tell B to come up with his own pics to show her up! LOL

The Kitola said...

Unfortunately, B is shy around people he doesn't know, so has virtually no way to get said pictures without the help of Photoshop.

Anonymous said...

That's tough. And it makes it that much tougher to take what she did. I think it really might fall on you to let her know she's fucked up. It isn't easy to put up with friends sometimes.
Sorry to turn your blog into an IM service. What you doing home on a Friday night? Norm

The Kitola said...

Well, I have one friend that's mad at me for defending J, B who doesn't return calls, J herself, and a boyfriend who lives a 6-7 hour drive away from me. Had I no Sign Language workshop tomorrow, I'd be driving my ass to L.A. right now.

The Kitola said...

I need to correct that: My friend is mad at me AND defending J. Meaning...she's pissed that I'm not OMG SO HAPPEEEE for her.

Anonymous said...

I must say that you lead a full life there young lady.ROTFL I'm not quite sure what to say about your friends. Too bad for you and Joey that L.A. isn't in tonights plans.
Well,you've had enough of my sorry ramblings for one night so,unless you have some other drama I can comment on,I'll bid you good night.
BTW,While we've been having this little exchange I've been reading through some of your older entries. You really do have a style all your own. I think you and the intern are perfect for each other! Norm

The Kitola said...

Unfortunately, I can't go visit L.A. for awhile. I'm on winter break right now, but there's issues with his work schedule and my rehearsal schedule with the kids. I'm hoping to get to see him right before my Spring classes start (which will be the 2 year mark for us). I'm hoping to be able to spend more weekends in L.A. once the kid's show is over. Just before Valentine's would be great.

And thank you for thinking Joey and I are a good match! I've thought so for quite a while. *Beams*